Sure enough, ＂Prodigal Son＂ Edison Chen can’t be a good man
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What is your definition of a "good man"?
At first glance, earning money to support a family, loving a wife, and accompanying children should be the most basic criteria for a "good man."
From this standard, the former "prodigal son" Edison Chen is now definitely a good man.
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When it comes to Edison Chen now, what comes to mind is the thriving independent brand, the declining appearance year by year, and the honest dazzling baby maniac.
His Weibo only focuses on his wife, Qin Shupei.
In addition to work, the content is children, showing love every day.
Open your mouth and say, "You are my everything."
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Forwarding his wife’s work photos, he was full of pride and looked like a fan.
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The little bits and pieces of his daughter reveal the love of an old father everywhere.
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The young master who loved to play at the beginning became a "good man" who loved his family and took care of his family. What an emotional picture –
Sure enough, there is no absolute in everything, and the prodigal son also has a time to turn back!
But is this really the case?
In the past few days, a small essay written by a netizens has been dug up, causing an uproar.
– "I Free Chen Edison Twice".
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Yes, this Edison Chen is the current "good man" Edison Chen.
Briefly summarize, the thing is that Edison Chen wanted to make an appointment with this online friend many times, but in the end he failed to make an appointment for various reasons.
This article was written in 2019 and is about the experience of 3 years ago, that is, 2016. According to this netizen, the intersection between the two began with ins.
Because she saw Edison Chen’s documentary, she thought the other party was an interesting person, so she casually sent a private message, but she didn’t expect the other party to reply quickly.
The two of them started chatting, and it didn’t take long for the style to deviate.
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Edison Chen directly asked, Do you want to meet me at the hotel?
Even if she diverts the topic, Edison Chen will always come up with similar questions.
Therefore, she deliberately mentioned Qin Shupei, who was in a public relationship with Chen Edison at the time, but was told, "It’s none of your business!!!".
This invitation was finally rejected by the woman on the grounds of "busy papers".
I thought this was the end of the matter, but I didn’t expect that after half a year, Edison Chen found female netizens again. In order to confirm that it was me, they directly opened a video.
This time, Edison Chen was in Shanghai. In order to bypass his fans, he asked the girl to go to the hotel at 4 a.m. to find him. However, the girl overslept, and Mr. Chen was stood up again.
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Looking back at the news at that time, Edison Chen was indeed in Shanghai at that time.
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A month after being pigeonholed, Edison Chen found this online friend again on Instagram and said he would sign her as a singer.
However, after the girl returned to China and couldn’t access social media, the two never contacted again.
She also posted a chat record, in which Edison Chen directly "made an appointment" for a while, and then said "I miss you" affectionately. His words are really high.
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The most extreme part of this is the timing.
Chen Edison asked female netizens around December 2016. In May of the same year, Chen Edison and Qin Shupei’s relationship was exposed.
In August, some netizens met two people visiting a baby products store. In March 2017, Qin Shupei gave birth to her daughter. In June, the news that Chen Guanxi held a 100-day banquet for her daughter became a hot search.
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In other words, it can be basically confirmed that when Chen Guanxi asked a female online friend, Qin Shupei had been pregnant with her daughter for more than 5 months.
If the content of the small composition is true, Edison Chen properly cheated on his wife during pregnancy.
The character of "good husband" and "good father" collapsed once again.
However, after the incident broke, the melon eaters were not too surprised, expressing that they were not surprised.
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It certainly is.
It is not surprising that "cheating" and "cheating" happened to Edison Chen. After all, he himself has always been a famous prodigal son.
As for creatures like the prodigal son, the probability of them turning back is lower than the probability of us picking up gold on foot.
"When the prodigal son turns back, the gold will not be exchanged", I thought it was a compliment before, but rather a kind of innuendo and warning.
Throughout the ages, the vast majority of women who have been looking forward to the prodigal son’s heart and scum becoming better have only waited for despair.
A month ago, an author named "Jinjiang Moon Passed Water" wrote a long article reviewing the 15-year relationship with his husband and their 5-year marriage, which caused a sensation on the Internet.
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Last December, Yue Shishui discovered that her loving husband was cheating, and she filed for divorce.
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At first, the man agreed, but a few days later he relented and deleted Xiaosan’s contact information in front of her.
Until the day of the divorce certificate, the man had been confessing and reassuring, saying that he had cheated only because of loneliness.
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After experiencing the delay in the divorce cooling-off period, the obstruction of both parents, and his nostalgia for this relationship, Yuebianshui finally promised to give the other party another chance.
However, the following events once again confirmed that sentence: "Cheating only occurs zero and countless times."
After the divorce was put on hold, the man continued to cheat, disappear, and lie.
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Accompany a third party to open a room, watch movies, play games, and even publicly defend the third party in front of his wife without hesitation.
The cruelest thing was that he was torn between two women, neither of whom wanted to let go.
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During this period, Yue Shishui left home alone for a week, and her husband ignored her, even taking the opportunity to date a third party.
When she came back, he continued to lie that he had lost contact with the mistress.
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The constant entanglement of the two eventually led to the recurrence of depression, which led to the idea of suicide, writing long articles, and running away from home.
Fortunately, a few days after Weibo was sent out, her friend finally found her and reported her safety to everyone.
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After returning home, he found that his husband was actively transferring property while away from home, taking away almost all the things in the house.
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At present, the girl has put aside the idea of suicide and is parting ways with her husband as soon as possible through a lawyer.
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After reading the blog posts sent before the moon passed away and the combing of the whole process after returning to rationality, it is difficult not to be angry.
Although every sentence in her long article is an accusation, there are so many memories of the sweet past that even if the man has cheated on him many times, it can be seen that she is still very reluctant to part with this relationship.
However, she gave the other party opportunities again and again, but in the end she only got constant deception, betrayal and hurt.
People who cheat are greedy. On the one hand, they don’t want to give up the benefits they get from their original partner, and on the other hand, they are greedy for the romance outside.
Once you find that you can abandon the bottom line and forgive, you can give in without principle, which is equivalent to giving him the opportunity to reoffend and hurt you again.
In a marriage adjustment column, I saw such a real case.
A couple who were poor and white when they were young, relied on the hard work of the two to make the home appliance business prosperous, and they accumulated a rich net worth in middle age.
So, the woman quit the mall and focused on taking care of the family, but the man cheated. In order to give the child a complete home, the woman chose to forgive again and again, but the man was always unclear.
Although the family is complete, there is a crisis of trust in the relationship between the husband and wife, and quarrels and doubts have become commonplace.
The eldest sister’s temper became more and more irritable, and she worried about gains and losses all day long. Finally, a breast tumor was found, and the vigorous and radiant woman was gone forever.
In the show, she cried that if she had chosen to let go, would there have been a different ending?
Life is not long, really stay away from people who consume themselves, the more torn, the more you will lose.
Here we have to mention the model of timely stop loss Mao Xiaotong.
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Three years ago, Mao Xiaotong came to her boyfriend Chen Xiang’s apartment after filming late at night, and unexpectedly saw her boyfriend Chen Xiang "shirtless" in the same room as Jiang armor.
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After four hours, she packed up all her belongings with the help of her friends and moved out of Chen Xiang’s house.
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The Weibo post on the same day read: "I never thought this scene would appear in front of me."
Announced the end of this four-year relationship.
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Then Mao Xiaotong continued to pursue her career quietly.
"Dance Forest Conference" surprised four people with a "Titanic", and the subsequent dramas became more and more popular, with more and more fans.
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After Chen Xiang and Jiang Armor’s derailment incident, their usual reputation plummeted.
Mao Xiaotong, who is so calm and rational, is called "my role model" by many girls.
Her motto is: Don’t underestimate a woman’s courage to solve problems.
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Emotional things are like people drinking water, knowing their own warmth.
After writing so much, it doesn’t mean that there are absolutely no "prodigal sons" in the world.
But one thing is certain, "The prodigal son turns back, the gold does not change" is a gamble. The dealer is scum, and the loser is mostly an infatuated girl.
I hope that every girl who truly loves her will not only have the determination to manage with heart, but also the courage to not back down in the face of harm and the courage to clear up.
After all, many times, leaving a scum and letting go of a broken relationship is actually giving yourself a way to live.
Original title: "Sure enough," Prodigal Son "Edison Chen can’t be a good man"
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